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My Two Cents

I have hesitated to write anything on this topic because I know there are some people in my life who read my blog whose opinions and feelings on this issue are opposed to mine and I do not wish to alienate those people from me and my family. Considering that, one might ask why I would write. I write because I see myself as a person who would rather stay silent than offend and I feel compelled to overcome some of my fear of offending and speak my beliefs with boldness. “For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation. . .” [Romans 1:16]

I do not intend to turn this blog into something different than what it has been with this post, so you can click below if you want to read this one or skip it completely.  Beware, this post is a long one.

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When Preparation Backfires

I over think things.  When I have an event coming up or am planning to host something at my house I often think through scenarios in my head and try to predict how everyone will behave and what I can do to lesson the impact of my hoard of small children.  The rest of this post is a bit of a rant so if you want to read my rant, click on the words read more below.

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First Grade

I assume most of my readers do not want every particular about Isaac’s school experience, but in the interest of family history, I will be more complete than I would be if I were just writing this post for casual blog readers.4944928191_c482315018_b

The first day of school was August 17th.  We met his teacher the night before at a back to school night.  Her name is Mrs. Rader.  She has taught school for 37 years and this is her second time teaching first grade (she taught 2nd grade last year).  She seems like the kind motherly type which I think is a good fit for Isaac since he tends to be shy and scared.

School Bullies?

The first day was a half day so we picked Isaac up at 11:15.  He got in the van and started complaining right away that the van smelled like “stinky” (poo).  When he got home, he was convinced that the whole house stunk and he only calmed down after I let him spray air freshener all over.  I asked him lots of questions about his day and he had no complaints.  He said Anne and Emma were at his table along with some kids he didn’t know and that his seat was on the end.  He said that he enjoyed his first day.  Later he complained that a boy was holding him and trying to hurt his head at recess.  I emailed his teacher.

Within a few days he started reporting more incidents of kids picking on him.  He said a kid was biting him on his arms and legs and that another kid told all his friends to hit him and that someone tried to steal his lunch.  I became very concerned and called the school to set up a meeting with his teacher.  She called me back a few hours later and said that she had talked to the boys and that it seemed to be a misunderstanding and that she didn’t see anyone giving him a hard time, but she’d keep an eye on him.  Not knowing if he was making things up, I tried not to put any ideas into his head and I avoided questions about if other kids were mean to him that day.  He had a few days where he reported nothing unusual, but before long he started telling stories that made no sense.  He told me in a very heated voice that a boy in his class was trying to give him more math to do because the boy wanted him to stay at school for 100 years!  I asked if someone tried to get him to do their math and said no.  He said someone took his lunch bag, ate his lunch, then returned the bag.  His stories have become so outrageous that I can’t believe them, however, I am concerned about why he’s telling me these obviously untrue stories.  Hopefully, I’ll get a chance to spend some time in his class when my mom comes to visit so that I can get a first hand view of what’s going on.

Reading

I went into the school to pick up Isaac for a Dr. Appointment on Monday.  4916979463_b4188bb039_bThe teacher said she was really glad to see me because she was excited about Isaac’s reading and wanted to talk to me about it.  She had screened kids by having them read a list of words.  Isaac was one of six kids who could read all the words.  Those six took a test that gave them a reading level.  Isaac’s level fell somewhere between 1.7 and 2.7 (first grade, 7th month and second grade 7th month).  Without seeing the test, I assume that he was able to read some words at both levels, but did not read every word within that range perfectly.  Because his scores are sufficiently high, he has started reading books at school and then taking quizzes on the books he’s read so that he can earn points towards rewards at school.

This doesn’t really relate to school, but a few weeks ago I had sent him to his room to get dressed and when I went in to check on him, he was standing in his underwear reading a book.  I was very excited that he was enjoying reading enough to get distracted by it!

I’m also starting to wonder how he does in math since it sounds like the worst fate he can think of is having more math to do.  Perhaps I should spend some time working on first grade math concepts with him.

Nose picking

Ok people, I want some advice.  What do you do about nose picking and has your solution decreased the frequency of this behavior?  I think anyone with a kid who has both fingers and a nose will at some point find the fingers in the nose.  It’s embarrassing and gross.  One time in church one of my children pulled out a particularly big, gross booger.  As I reached into my diaper bag in search of wet wipes, I saw a look in the child’s eyes that said “what am I going to do with this” and I pulled a wet wipe out just in time to save the booger from entering the child’s mouth.

We haven’t made a big deal out of this behavior.  We usually just tell the offending child that it’s bad manners, send him or her for a tissue, or make some comment about mining for nose gold, but the behavior is still witnessed regularly and I wonder if anyone knows a good way to decrease this behavior.

Our New Van

The process of getting this van completely ready for me to drive has been a little frustrating, but we’re almost there. Its a 2002 Ford Windstar.  We ended up with a newer model of the same van (we had a 1995).  We didn’t plan to get the same thing, it just worked out that way somehow.  Ironically, the paint scheme is even the same.

Here are some pictures that I took today:IMG_1290

The interior is leather and this van has many interesting features that we didn’t have in our old van, like a built in garage door opener, built in VCR with screen, and a little mirror on the headliner above the rear-view mirror designed to allow the driver (or passenger) to see the kids in the back.IMG_1289

It has power sliding doors on both sides and buttons in a variety of places to allow you to activate the power doors.IMG_1283

This is not the best picture of the back, but with 4 car seats in, it’s hard to see it all well.  It has captain seats in the middle and a bench with three seatbelts in the back.IMG_1285

It’s hard to see from the picture, but it has a nice wood trim around everything.  All I know about the stereo is that it has a 6 Disc CD changer.

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Anyway, you should get a basic idea of what it looks like from these pictures.

I heart my gym

I joined a gym this month (Fort Sanders Health and Fitness) and so far I’m loving it.  I’ve joined gyms before, but I always feel guilty leaving my kids in the childcare so I’ve always quit going after a short while.

What really sold me on this gym is that the childcare is great.  They put a bracelet on my wrist and on my children’s wrists (except for Ila who gets one on her ankle).  The bracelets have each child’s name, a check-in number to help them quickly locate info like my phone number and where I said I’d be, and the time that they came in.

They’ll take kids age 6 weeks-6 years in KidCity.  They have multiple rooms including a separate room for coloring, a movie room (which I’ve never seen my kids go into), and a main play area.  I know they also have bathrooms, but I’m not sure if they have more rooms than that.  They don’t allow parents to go back there for safety reasons.  The play room has a variety of toys, a line of baby swings, exersaucers, rocking chairs, and other such things as well as big plastic castles that the kids can climb in.  The staff is friendly and kind and they recognize all of my kids and know them by name, plus they change diapers and feed babies.  At least they would feed my baby if she’d take a bottle.  They have a place for you to list feeding instructions including bottle warming instructions.

The rule is that they’ll take each kid for up to two hours, then after a break of  three hours or more, they’ll take the kids for another two hours.  Although I’ve taken the kids twice in one day a few times, I usually only use the first two hours.

KidCity provides classes for the kids.  I love watching the classes, it distracts me more than anything else while I exercise.  Here are some pictures of the kickstart class:

They set up an obstacle course and do a variety of fun activities.  In the picture below, the kids are sitting on boards with wheels and maneuvering around obstacles.IMG_0288They gather on the rug in the middle to sing songs and receive instructions. They have some games and activities that they do each time and a few activities that they rotate.  IMG_0293 They take the kids to and from classes using a rope which the kids hold onto.IMG_0297They have several other classes, but kickstart is the only one that I took pictures of.  Nicole attends a class for 2 and 3 year-olds called “Bouncercize” where they do various activities with hula hoops, balls, and other things.

Fort Sanders has a separate area for the kids who are 6-11.  Six-year-olds can choose which group they want to be in.  The area for the older kids is called KidFit.  KidFit has activites designed for older kids.  They provide computers, air hockey, ping pong, foosball, a climbing wall, and other such activities.  They also offer classes that are different than the ones offered for younger children.  Isaac really liked the air hockey on his first day.

We’ve gone to the gym every weekday since we joined, with the exception of Isaac’s birthday.  I was worried about giving up my mornings to go to the gym because that was typically my most productive cleaning time.  The kids were calmer and much less needy in the morning.  Going to the gym, however, has changed our day.  Since they’re able to get some of their energy out in the morning and participate in a variety of activities at the gym, they are less restless and crazy in the afternoon and I find that I have a similar amount of cleaning time.

The childcare at the gym has also allowed me to start doing some tutoring with my older children.  I drop Ila and Nicole off at KidCity and then take Isaac and Charlotte to another area of the gym where we practice reading, writing, and math.  Then I drop them off so that I can exercise and shower.

Fort Sanders has 4 pools and with the free childcare I can actually take my kids swimming whenever I want.  Our favorite is the baby pool because my three oldest children can walk around the entire pool without getting their faces wet.  They have lifeguards on duty that will come sit by the pool and watch the kids too.  This was particularly nice the day that Nicole started wandering away from the pool and I was able to follow her without leaving my other kids unattended (my kids happened to be the only ones in the pool on that occasion, so we had our own lifeguard).  6.7.10 fitness center kid pool (8)

They also provide lots of extras like a towel service (they provide clean towels for showers or the pool or for just wiping away sweat), shampoo, body wash, shaving gel, hairspray, lotion, and aerosol deodorant.  I love the towel service since it means that I don’t have to bring our own towels for swimming or showering.

We’ve even started having Zach take the kids to the gym on Saturdays.  He exercises, sits in the hot tub, and showers while they watch the kids and I get some much needed kid-free time that I can use to clean the house and prepare it for Sunday.

I was starting to worry one day as I brought my kids to the gym that they were going to hate me for bringing so many kids so often, but when I walked into kidcity,  a girl said “oh Ila, my favorite!”  She told me that she thought my kids were the best siblings there because they took care of each other.  It made my day and helped me feel good about the people taking care of my kids.  One time when my cousin Natalie and I had arranged to go swimming with us, Natalie got to KidCity first and asked if Ila was there yet.  The girl responded with “oh, Ila’s coming?  I love Ila.”  It was probably the same girl, but it still gives me great peace to know that she’s not screaming and miserable while she’s there.

And that’s the other great thing.  My cousin Brent’s wife Natalie is a member of the same gym and we see each other several times a week and our kids go to classes together. 

This blog is way too long.  Thanks for reading. 

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The End of Yard Bunnies

Zach has enjoyed having these bunnies nesting in the yard.  He was checking on them daily and inviting the children out to see them.  The last few days he’s gone so far as to extract the little critters from their home.  Their eyes have opened up and they’re now furry and as they grow they have become more and more able.  IMG_0023 The last few times he had taken them out, one has made a run for it (or a hop for it to be more literal) and Zach has had to chase it down before putting it back in it’s nest.  IMG_0021 Yesterday he had a bunny out and had somehow scared it.  The bunny started making this noise which must be some sort of warning call because all of the bunnies hopped out of the nest and hopped off in every direction.  Three of them made it across the street and into a thicket.  The forth one was captured and put back into his nest, but he jumped out again.  Zach went inside for a short time before venturing out in search of the bunnies only to scare the mother bunny as she came back to gather her babies.  Long story short, we no longer have a nest of bunnies in the front yard.

Bunnies

Zach pulled the little bunnies out today to show the kids.  They’re silly little things.  Two of them tried to hop away and had to be chased down the first time he pulled them out.IMG_9941 Here’s a better shot of the little guy (or gal, who knows).IMG_9936 And this one’s good for more perspective on their size.IMG_9937

Checking on the baby bunnies

Their mom is feeding them about once a night, between 7 and 9 PM.  They look pretty healthy; their eyes are opening and their fur is growing.  I try not to bug them more than it takes to peek in and make sure they’re fat and healthy.

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