Tag Archives: Gender Identity

Nature vs Nurture. . . .really?!

I don’t think anyone who has had a little boy could make the argument that masculinity  2.10.07 Isaac car stackis something that we train in our kids.  When Isaac was 17 months old, someone handed me a book full of trucks to show him.  I assumed the book would not hold his attention for long, after all it was a book with nothing but construction trucks in it—I thought it seemed rather dull.  Imagine my surprise when his face lit up as he pointed to each vehicle.  From there he became captivated with anything that had an engine.  Since that experience, I’ve noticed that every little boy I’ve known has gone through a stage where he is obsessed with trucks, trains, and planes.

My girls on the other hand, like girly things.  Sure they’ll play with a truck or drive a car around the room, but they show their gender identity in different ways. 

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Little Mommy

If you don’t belive that there’s an innate difference between girls and boys, then I’d like you to meet my children!  As you know, Isaac is all boy.  Loves trucks, trains and anything with an engine.  Charlotte on the other hand likes girly things that Isaac never cared about.  She loves her plastic bead necklaces, she enjoys trying to play dress up and she loves her dollies.  When I was pregnant with Charlotte, Grandma Cochran would put a doll out with the rest of the toys in an attempt to prepare Isaac for the arrival of his little sister.  He would have nothing to do with the doll, he’d just push it aside to get to the toys.  He never picked it up or held it.   Charlotte, however, picks up her doll and holds it close to her.  She rocks it and “talks” to it in her little girly voice.  She also likes to take the doll’s hat off and try it on her own head!  She also shows more interest in stuffed animals and kittys.